Sooo…I’ve decided to ONCE AGAIN get a relaxer. I’ve decided the natural life isn’t for
me! I can’t get jiggy with dis ish. I’ve been natural for 3 years, and cut off the rest of my relaxed ends last spring. So you may be asking why I’m going back to
the creamy crack. Am I addicted? Losing
my mind? Going insane? Forgetting my roots?
Actually, none of the above. I
loved when my hair was relaxed. It was
the longest it had ever been since I was a child. I was relaxed for 2 years before “going
natural” with no problems. My hair was
growing wonderfully and I enjoyed every minute of it.
Now I know this may sound confusing to the readers out
there. The only reason why I went natural
in the first place was because of a relaxer mistake. While in graduate school (Michigan – Go
BLUE!), I would often visit home every few months to get a relaxer. Then there were a few months where I couldn’t
visit home and I had so much new growth that I needed to find someone to relax
the growth sprouting from my head. So I
found A WONDERFUL stylist to give me a relaxer.
He knew that I was a student that was traveling over an hour so he
allowed me to do a consultation and a relaxer all in the same day. While he did everything RIGHT, my hair just
wasn’t consistent. He didn’t give me a
relaxer strong enough so, while I no longer had new growth I had two different textures. My old hair stylist
relaxed my hair until a wavy state, he relaxed it somewhere between just a
looser version of my hair and a step up above wavy. While I appreciate him not damaging my hair, it
just wasn’t straight enough for me. I
still had a HARD time doing my hair in under an hour especially since I had to
babysit my hair now due to dealing with multiple textures/curl patterns. So at this point I made a decision to grow
out my hair.
For months I dealt with a mixture of relaxed and natural
hair, and it was a constant struggle. I
wore weaves and wigs for about a year to deal with my natural hair while
working out. However, it still was a lot
of work to wash my hair every week. So
after a few more months of the natural struggle I made the decision to go back
to relaxing.
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